they reassured me they are fine and this too shall pass. My problem now is the pain between shoulder blades and moving to the front. The use of "you language" opposed to "I language" makes it more likely that this conversation disintegrated into a full-blown argument, leaving no one feeling particularly good. https://patient.info/forums/discuss/i-feel-like-im-dying-543054. I have recently started getting discomfort in my right flank/around the base of my ribs. By using feeling statements during family therapy, family members can begin to communicate with one another more effectively. I'm finally considering some form of HRT, do some research first, if youre in peri estrogen tends to be higher, i developed fibroids when this started and estrogen makes them worse x, my chest pains have been really bad today I feel sick and faint and the head pressure too. Very scared. How Much Relationship Privacy Do You Need? please let me know . Thank you for reading my frustrations . Patient does not provide medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. Ideally, this allows the other person to concentrate on helping to alleviate the discomfort, rather than defending themselves. Health anxiety is the worst. one of a million new and strange things that's happened to me that I didnt have an actual term for. I had lots of tests all came back negative. i have been turning to God also. My doctors say they fodt worry about my levels unless it was 3 times higher. but my health anxiety is through the roof and I keep thinking there has to be something wrong with me but they just haven't found it yet, aw bless you i know the feeling, are you taking iron? For instance, people often say, "You make me so mad," which typically causes a defensive reaction from the other person at the first word. Good for a few weeks and it would come back for a week +. Corganics Clinical CBD Softgels provide patients with a precise serving of THC-free CBD in a convenient form. I think when hormones are off, the pH gets messed up and causes all sorts of strange things in the bladder/vagina. I so hate that this happening!!! Hope yours clears up soon, it gets you down doesn't it when you don't know what the problem is xxx. I was also of the opinion that I will die home alone and no one will find me! So i was googling pretty much what causes elevated sed rate and alp rates. I also have a lot of bladder problems, urgency pressure. For example, a person might say something like, "I feel like you don't care." While this statement starts with an expression of how the speaker feels, it concludes with an accusation. 2018;9(1):2474. doi:10.1038/s41467-018-04925-y, Rogers SL, Howieson J, Neame C. I understand you feel that way, but I feel this way: the benefits of I-language and communicating perspective during conflict. Sherri, as I was reading your post, I had to stop and look up it was not one I wrote. Both Susan and Karen are experiencing the same situation and feeling, but Karen uses a feeling statement, while Susan does not. this will all pass so dont worry but get help if you need it. Sometimes constipated, sometimes diarrhea. Have you received any diagnosis for what causes these symptoms? I have so many odd symptoms I just feel like I'm about to drop dead any minute. Our softgels are made using nanoemulsion technology that increases CBD's bioavailability, making it easier for the body to . Is this a normal thing with this (post-menopause)? My heart goes out to everyone dealing with this. "I feel stressed out when the house is so disorganized. appropriate medical assistance immediately. I get reflux and then I take a tums and then it stops the reflux but causes me to have a pulling nagging pain between breast and shoulder blades. my nausea was about once a month for over a year. I never use to be like this. Hope you feel better soon! I hope you feel better but at least you know you aren't alone. It is likely that Susan only got a defensive response. Im nauseous but hungry. I'm home tonight, when I should be out, because one minute I feel nauseous then I feel like I need eat but then end up running to the bathroom.It just makes me want to stay home and not have a life. I feel such dread, especially in the morning. I wish you well with everything and hope these symptoms will be a thing of the past for all of us. Although i hate that other women are suffering, at least i know im not imagining these issues. ya the sore throat really started freaking me out , I've read where everyone said do avoid sweets , dairy , and caffeine, so I have been and have started eating spinach and vegetables and trying to get to a healthier weight , and wasn't feeling to bad today so I thought I'd try a diet coke to see if it actually did effect my symptoms and sure enough it did not even a hr after drinking it my throat has started hurting , feel like I have a vice script on my head moreless pressure , and right lower rib started hurting again , so needless to say there will be no more caffeine in my future , I've went as far as going to cvs and buying a rapid std test because my doctors and everyone says that I'm fine even though I was checked 3 yrs ago and haven't bee. My stomach has been the worst acid reflux, bloating and major heartburn had an endoscopy too. I also just underwent several tests for digestive issues. What next! Right before meno hit I had a 2 month period that seemed endless and I honestly thought I was gonna die. I feel ______. and Privacy Policy and steps will be taken to remove posts identified For example, the speaker in the previous example might say, "I feel sad that I have to do this alone. kadija. One thing i notice, is that dehydration can cause me to feel rather unwell. do you act like everything is fine when your kids call? I'd greatly appreciate hearing from you if/when convenient for an update. every 2 days. One reason "I feel" statements might help defuse conflict is a phenomenon known as the norm of reciprocity. I feel nauseous rather flu-like, have the anxiety especially health anxiety, muscular aches and pains, digestive issues, and the weirdest bladder symptoms ever. I've had perimenopause for the last two years. I have no appetite, nausea, dry mouth, incredibly fatigued - tired, headaches, occasional hot flashes, night sweats, etc.. Fighting to keep weight on via force feeding myself. i have horrible nausea on and off all day everyday and no appetite!! I dont want to use anti depressants either. Content is reviewed before publication and upon substantial updates. My shoulder blade and ear and throat pain have gotten better and I was feeling pretty good and now I'm having alot of acid relux and feeling like I need to burp and cant. I will be fine for a few weeks and out of the blue I feel like I have a knot in my upper stomach and feel like throwing up. I am also going a lot it seems. Upgrade to Patient Pro Medical Professional? i am beyond tired everyday all day ( prob cause i dont sleep much ) and my body doesnt feel good. Can things get any worse? I own a property management company so on the computer probably 14 hours a day and I am pretty sure it's due to my posture. In case something happens so I'm near the hospital. I would so love to meet some of you ladies. On bad days, my whole body hurts. hello I have had the same dry mouth burning tongue, its hard for me to eat it drives me crazy I am 54 years old I had a hysterectomy about a year and a half ago but I still have my ovaries right after my 54th birthday all of these things just kicked in at once. Hi Jamie, I get weird head pressure too. You are not alone. I also use a moisturizer Gynetrof and Calendula ointment. I'm here for you if you need to talk, Hi Viola, I was afraid this thread was dead since the last entry was 6 weeks ago but still wanted to give it a shot. I read a lots try to keep my mind occupied till I get tired and I fall asleep.. it was prescribed me for palpitations but i felt even sicker taking it . This solution may not be a real optionbut does allow for discussion. It can be brought on by stress..do anyone in your family have diverticulitis or IBS? I have had this deep ache and almost burning type sensation right on top of my pubic bone. I dont think its IC but i get this pressure but very little urine. i can totally picture myself doing this! I saw a urologist video by a female urologist, Kelly Caperpace or something like that. Medical Reviewers confirm the content is thorough and accurate, reflecting the latest evidence-based research. Also having anxiety attacks joint pain and stomach issues and ear pain that not caused from infection. By clicking Accept All Cookies, you agree to the storing of cookies on your device to enhance site navigation, analyze site usage, and assist in our marketing efforts. All lab test perfect once i rule out no heart issues from cardiologist as already have been been by my dr but i have to be certain. Verywell Mind's content is for informational and educational purposes only. Now, anxiety has crept its way back in and is working over my meds, even stronger. A feeling statement keeps the focus on the feeling of the speaker which is less likely to elicit a defensive reaction and more likely to promote effective communication. i did speak to a therapist about it which really helped and i told my parents. These messages can have a number of benefits during communication: Feeling statements can be a way to express assertiveness without causing listeners to feel blamed, accused, defensive, or guilty. The best news us it came back benign. I've had interstitial in the past, but its been way over 20 years since I've had a flare. While this statement starts with an expression of how the speaker feels, it concludes with an accusation. I feel hungry but nauseated at the same time. I use calendula every morning. To provide the best experiences, we use technologies like cookies to store and/or access device information. You really will be ok. How are you doing present day? Im 55; will be 56 in August. Well i dont want my levels any higher. Ill be 56 in August.April 15 2019 was my last period. I have had every test you can think of as well and feel the same as you. Drs chalked up to migraine and or stomach bug. Looking back now, these bouts of nausea had me scared to death (yep, Googled every type of cancer under the sun and thought I had every one of them!) Its Feb 5 now and on April 15 it will be my one full year without a period. My prayers are with all of us. And it does make you feel nausea. I feel for you, because I am feeling the same way. Learning how to use "I feel" statements can be an effective way to improve how you communicate with others, particularly if you are dealing with difficult conversations or conflict. I dont have too much longer, God willing! April 15, 2020 will hopefully be my new day! Hi Sian: Im sending good, healing thoughts and prayers your way! Journal of Language and Social Psychology. I just started menopause, I feel very weird and sick at time. I NORMALLY have labs done every year but this year has been epic so I have not been in but have never had any bad labs (hope I don't jinx myself). Not sure if i mentioned it earlier but one of my worse symptoms is the bladder pressure. So an ultrasound and it showed a rough texture. It does not burn when I pee and this too comes and goes. i am glad to say while they can still come, they are at least frequent. I come on this forum from time to time when i get scared thoughseeing you mention the rib pain will help me sleep a bit tonight - thank you . She will be ok but it's going to be a long drawn out legal battle as the driver fled and his best friend died. I certainly don't feel that now. This article discusses what "I feel" statements are, how they are used, and why they are beneficial in communication. I-language may help individuals become more receptive to feedback. This of course made me very cranky. Always speak to your doctor before acting and in cases of emergency seek I have a lot of anxiety over it! If it's not one thing it's another! Im looking forward to it! Before you go through menopause you just expect to have hot flashes and the other standard side effects. I feel terrible live a very healthy lifestyle and have been completely taken back by this every single day for three months. I am always telling my husband i don't want to be alone. I am the caretaker in my house. Thank you In advance . I also noticed I cannot tolerate chocolate anymore. Posted I am not bleeding, no heart burn, not bloated, not gaining or losing any weight just the occasional nausea which has been going on for years. Families are also prone to communication problems that can interfere with the family dynamic and lead to conflict within the family unit. I know what it's like when you are just wanting someone to talk to and seems like you are going through this alone. One common pitfall when using "I feel' statements is to use them as a way to express a judgment or assign blame to the other person. I have had the same thing for 2 months now plus digestive issues and no explanation from the GP. I've so been there. But it feels like we lose all control. Thank you for your testimony! Looking forward to a couple of days off over Christmas. hi just ready all glory to god , bit I'm in a constant battle everyday I have some many things that's physical wrong with me , for aches pains to cramps tingling numbing surges of pain in bust hip aches groin pains back aches, stiff neck back of head shoulders weird headaches , light-headedness sometimes like I'm just floating ,it's a daily constant battle, I went through some really dark times in my mind and tried hrt but think that caused more light-headedness palpitations dropping in BP heart rate , had ecg done that's OK so just stopped taking it , but still constant feel ill daily , and now I have been called back for further testing following a mammogram, so I am all over the show , then I have to get down and seek God, because that's all I can do . We sound like sisters from another mister (lol). I am so thankful to know i am not alone. Use of the forums is subject to our Terms of Use Omg I thought I was dying, tight chest. It seems to hit like every 3 months and last for about a week (which seems like a year)! This strategy can also help couples begin to build greater empathy for one another. All the best x. Hi Sherriel - I had the same bladder pressure issue. I am 49 so this is a (fairly) early age to already be postmeno, but Mom went thru it at 49 as well. How are your bladder problems? Wow, that is expensive! And tons of other symptoms but No hot flashes. i given up i dont think ever will get back to normal..its been 10 years for me! Muscle twitches in calves and feet. I had to cancel and I now realize it has nothing to do with my sinuses! I feel so connected to you all..will be 51 this April and in constant turmoilI'm also on propranolol for a anxiety.. Don't google it will stress you more out, everything leads to cancer or that your dying, easier said than done. Every day I wake up saying I am going to be strong but then another symptom appears! 'I feel' statements are a way of communicating the speaker's feelings or beliefs. In April nothing, and from there the worst anxiety and panic attacks started, headaches. I am a believer in God/Jesus as well and He is my Saviour! Ive been told by my male gynecologist that i dont have vaginal atrophy. I feel tired and joint pain. Thank you for your response , The gastro advises me after taking the antibiotics for Sibo then do food map diet and take one of the PPI omeprazole along probiotic and see if it gets better then if not they will ck my acid level by inserting a tube as you said sometimes we have low acid . Hang in there ladies. You are going to laugh about the shoulder blade/throat and ear pain. Doctors didnt have a clue so i googled and next thing i had all these weird, crazy diseases.. It would really make me feel better if you could help me with this.". Does not burn when I go and my at home test for UTI was negative. I am in California. My doctor thinks I am a hypochondriac (and lately I would have to agree). Misunderstandings in relationships happen to everyone. respect of any healthcare matters. So it must be this menopause making some of us lose control on ourselves. Back in July my period had stopped for 7 months and i thought, great im almost done then in January I got it again and every month since then and all the symptoms came back 10 times worst!! Don't really bother me but do any of you ladies have this awful nausea? prayers and support. I had similar bladder/urinary issues when I was in the menopause transition which disappeared after menopause. It can drive you to the edge especially if you are googling. I read your post and I have the same EXACT symptoms.the nausea is awful. Now nausea! For example, a person might say, "I feel angrywhen I am alone and you are out with your friends.". I'm praying every day. im new here and cant figure out how to use this forum properly but i have the shoulder blade pain which caused me to have neck surgery to get rid of it. Put a little on your finger. I have another appointment in March with another doctor in the same practice and will ask her about my lining and if everything is ok now. Praying like you that this is just another "symptom" and not cancer. Strangely I don't have hot flashes yet but I'm sure they are around the corner. You know they are bad when you are asking for the alternating constipation/diarrhea to come back so you can be over the urinary symptoms! When one person is communicating in a way that is non-confrontational and emotion-focused, the listeners are more likely to match their own responses to that of the speaker. Im now seeing a traditional Gastro Dr who takes my insurance i was praying not to repeat tests with her which she didnt . My fault though i guess i should have googled "urinary problems in menopause" . Nat Commun. It's taken over me, honestly, every aches and pains I fear the worse, I'm scared to be alone and I get panic attacks. I-messages can also be a helpful way to provide constructive feedback to other people. kadija. . Also forcing beverages down to keep from getting dehydrated. Hi l am the same postmenopausal 4 years had negative smear in july one week later all menopause symptoms back with a vengance fear of death constantly panic hot sweats depression had to start ads citalopram 20 been taking for 6 weeks hope it will work cant carry on like this .Keep well ladies. There is no shame in taking medications when you need them. I had no idea all of this would hit after periods stopped, in postmeno. earlier this year I had a terrible panic attack. at times i will feel the ache in my left side. My kids are attending school away and hubby also works abroad. I realize this was posted months ago but I'm hoping there are still others out there that can relate i feel as if this perimenooause is breaking me i literally feel as if I'm dying from nausea the moment i wake up to constant anxiety and panic attacks, jelly legs etc its horrible and so overwhelming I don't recognize myself I used to be such a practical thinking person. i am at the end of my rope. Maybe you could that, give the natural route a go and if you are not satisfied with the results you could then weigh up taking antibiotics. What i cannot understand is why i havent met anyone that i come into daily life with that has had these horrifying symptoms? I hope this works, too soon to tell right now. Once the feeling is stated, it should be connected to an issue or event. Hello, please can someone help to ease the absolute terror I have that I've got some terrible neurological disease? I also have developed a health anxiety. 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